In the previous part, we look upon how and why we should not make judgements about people around you and about the things in the environment. If you haven't then read - Part 1
Is Destiny in Gods hands?
The very first time when we read this question is destiny in gods hands, our intentions behind are to know about our future or maybe something worse had happened in our life, and for that reason to blame the god for that misery. See, understand this there's a purpose, there is a responsibility and there is a choice, and based upon these factors your life is defined.
1. The Purpose:
This is generally the reason why we're born not something like that god has fixed some programming and will follow accordingly, NO! Rather, it is the purpose or a reason why you chose to be re-born. Yes, you and only you decided to take this life in the past existence. Certainly, it is just a matter of fact that you just do not remember or are not that much aware of your last birth.
- How can you be aware of or recognize your past existence?
If you want to know about medics you talk to the doctor, about the law- a lawyer and about the spirits, the answer lies with spirituality- not something yoga or doing some exercise kinds of stuff and neither growing a beard and shaving your head to become a monk. Spirituality is not all that. For instance, if you are living in, for example, in India and want to go to Japan, there are numerous way to reach, one could travel by air, or by water even a fellow could take a long route from India-Spain-Africa-Chile-America-Japan, it is just an individual's choice.
Similarly, if you want to reach a certain level of spirituality or to be simplistic to get access to the spirit world which cannot be perceived by the five senses or the tongue, nose, ears, eyes and touch then you have to take guidance from the spiritual peoples [ generally- the monks, gurus, sadhu] not to be like them but to be your true version.
But one aspect you need to remember that whether you travel by air or water one thing is common and that is you need to 'pay' something. In a similar context with spirituality, whether you live your life as an entrepreneur, doctor, lawyer, business tycoon, political leader, engineer or any other profession the aspects which you have to pay for is firstly your intuition, like you should follow the path by your own wish and not by necessity or compulsion but by your own passion, secondly patience, of course, once you initiate the meditation and sadhana [ practices of spirituality] or any practice, you need patience.
2. The Responsibility:
Another aspect by which a human being live life is by certain duties and responsibilities which are more kind of compulsion, not something you probably dislike, but it's an ethic which has to be followed, for example, the parents will nurture you and teach you certain qualities, disciplines and would take care of you till last breath, also the religious practices performed by us and our job or business which should be done for an earning. All these are the responsibilities of an individual which are to be followed. It is something like how nature functions, not by forcefully but it's a duty. If you have sex not by choice but as a responsibility of humanity to continue the progress, then the child born would be very much disciplined.
3. The choice:
The choices you choose in your life determines the quality of your living. The most powerful aspect of your life is the choice and the decision that you make in every second of your life. It is more like that the way you perceive the world, the choices are filtred and the decision is taken accordingly.
Yes, the first two sense that is the purpose and your responsibility are kind of pre-planned during the time commencing from when you are in your mother's womb till the first 7-9 years [Generally before 7 Years] of your life. The god or the spirit or the universe also gives hope or belief or the chance to re-build or to upgrade your life by the choices you make, and the way you perceive has a deep impact on the purpose and your responsibility. Therefore, there is one quality which can change many things.
The balanced life is which includes equal percentages of your purpose, responsibility and your choice. That means 33 per cent you live for a purpose, 33 per cent for your responsibility of parent/profession/human and all that and 33 per cent by your choice.
How to accept and figure out reality?
1. What's reality and what is not?
The moment when you feel you are alive [not think] at that time whatever you perceive or looked upon all that is reality, and if you haven't felt any such moment in your life then sorry Pirate you are dead alive and didn't taste the reality yet.
To be simplistic, the reality is neither your thought, imagination nor your emotion. However, to convert your imagination into reality is called courage. How much courage do you have? Can you build a company? Can you be the president? Can you be an actor? If you imagine of anything say, for example, a leader, then many of them will think it's impossible, then these strangers are extremely coward, they are just poorly nourished in terms of confidence and guts, and if someone puts extreme efforts on their imagination and struggle like hell then he/she is courageous.
This is reality, to get completely focussed or lost on one particular aspect without expectations, just being involved in the process that's reality, you got it.
2. How can you pursue?
Shut the hell and log off from the technical world especially the social media, figure out your barriers or the obstacles crossing the way between you and your passion. Work upon your passion, to be the best you could make of your time and just do your own stuff and concentrate on developing skills and have patience.
The reader's life may be blessed, full of health, wisdom, wealth, and prosperity.
Thank you, Pirates,
7Empire
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