In the fast-paced world, we are living if you can't express, certainly, you can't compete to a certain level. The Significance of expressing is of great value, it's not just for saying but the results prove it, for instance, many politicians; particularly in India, don't have a pinch of knowledge, yet they are in power. In fact, according to the NewIndianExpress, only 40% of ministers are educated up to the school level. And How come these leaders end up being so dominant?
Because the expression is what makes a person believe in you blindly.
Thousands of people have blindly followed [Mahatma Gandhi, Nelson Mandela, Albert Einstein, Abraham Lincoln, Mother Teresa, Bill Gates... and many more] without even lifting a finger or doubting about them because of their humble attitude, because of their powerful speech and ultimately because of their noble behavior. The world knows about these respected gentlemen as they came out of their social, physical - psychological world and express themselves into what they can and they would.
What is Expression?
It is something that creates an unconscious impression about you in another person's mind. The expression doesn't necessarily mean only the physical expression of face - Nope! Expression is about the quality of your attitude, the way you present yourself in the world; in terms of speaking, walking, thinking, acting, approaching, and dealing - an individual with how much intensity and frame of mind he represents himself to the world, determines his Expressions.
The most Vital Expression - Orator!
Taste your words, before you spill it out - the wise sages taught us. In recent times the significance of the way you speak has become very crucial. It has happened because the lifestyles of human beings have adapted in this fashion.
Ask yourself that Why people want to have tattoos / good hairstyle / branded clothes / luxurious cars / Big Villas / Richest Accessories?
The answer is simple because they just want their end-product to be super-decorative. What it means is; for instance, the webpage you are watching right now is not designed directly, first, there is some coding performed and then hosting of the website followed by a few such steps, and then you can see this webpage. So what human beings want is that only the webpage or the displayed item or the end-product should be fancy.
Therefore we cannot deny the change - or modify the past, what is in our hands is the moment in which we are living now. To step out in the world an individual needs enough competence or else he'll be thrown out, in the sense that guy will complain that - life is unfair; others are pretty lucky; god hates me; I am depressed and all the stupid stuff. Bear in mind;
My Life is my making. If something phenomenal happens it is my creativity or if some setbacks or downfall takes palce it is my learning. Above all, no matter what turns out it is produced from me.
One needs to have certain mastery over what to speak; when to speak and how much to tell, or else it will definitely create unimaginable troubles in one's life journey. The reason why I emphasize vocal skill is that; after appearance what normally a person judges about a person is his saying or speaking. That's why it is said;
If you can speak, you can influence. If you can influence, you can change lives.
Having great oratory skills is not just about politics, it's about influencing; more it's about transforming because oratory is the power to talk people out of their sober and natural opinions. A man who can speak can rule.
How one can enhance his expressing skills?First, tell me how you learn to operate your mobile phone? Did Steve Jobs teach you? Nope! All you did was just spend some time after it and showed certain interest and desire. Similarly, in every aspect of learning new things what one needs is - a crazy curiosity and a certain amount of time after it.
Therefore to sharpen your speaking techniques;
First, watch some videos from the internet about what is oratory skills and how to enhance public speaking. Also, if individual wishes he can watch his ideal person's speeches. This will give you a basic idea about the areas where one needs to focus on.
Thereafter start speaking consciously with friends and family members in the sense; be attentive and don't get ruined by your thoughts and emotions while conversing. Cause many times it happens that when we talk to our relation partner we have romantic emotion, when conversing with parents a nasty emotion and it changes from person to person, therefore maintain the balance.
Then after practicing it for about 4-5 weeks, make the expressing style a habit, to be precise implement in your routine conversation. After which continue the practice unless and until you receive positive feedbacks and responses from some strangers or anyone else. In case if no one appreciates then an individual needs to look back and analyze how significant he has improved from the day he started.
At the right time, the opportunity will knock on your door or if an individual is impatient he can stand out in the public and raise his voice - it would be heard and influenced.
To know the depth of the ocean one needs to dive in it.
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